Communication
Healthy Communication Patterns
5 min read·Communication
Communication is less about what you say and more about whether both people feel heard and safe. Use this checklist to take an honest snapshot.
Run the checklist
Honest checklist
Tick the ones that feel true in your relationship right now. No judgement — just a snapshot.
Most people find this takes about 3 minutes — and it changes how they see the dynamic.
A green-flag / red-flag checklist to gauge how communication actually feels in your relationship..
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If any of this lands close to home, you're not imagining it. The patterns here are common, workable, and rarely something to face alone — that's exactly the work I do with clients every week.
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