Self-Assessment
Avoidant Attachment at Work
5 min read·Self-Assessment
Avoidant patterns at work often look like strengths — until they cost you trust, feedback, or a promotion. This checklist helps you see both sides.
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Most people find this takes about 3 minutes — and it changes how they see the dynamic.
High independence, low collaboration, polite distance — workplace avoidance, audited gently..
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If any of this lands close to home, you're not imagining it. The patterns here are common, workable, and rarely something to face alone — that's exactly the work I do with clients every week.
Joe · Relationship Coach